Last month when _Whytheluckystiff (_why) “went missing” I was not sure how to respond.  I needed time to process what was happening.  A lot of people, including some big names in web development were quick to step in and give a heartfelt thanks and goodbye to a man that had done so much for the Ruby community.

When I first started learning Ruby, I used the “Try Ruby in Your Browser” that _why made and hosted.  I read some of the coveted “Why’s Poignant Guide” and his blog, “Red Handed”.  I enjoyed exploring Hackety Hack and suggested it to friends.  His Shoes framework was also something I enjoyed, if only for a brief moment in time.

So here’s where I diverge from what seems to be the overwhelming sentiment of the majority of other people speaking out on the subject.  When _why left, he did not just abandon his projects and walk away.  He destroyed and deleted as he left.  He burned it all down and walked away into the wind.  I have 4 year old twins and a recent trip to the beach had a very similar outcome.  One child didn’t want her sandcastle to be used by anyone else, so she destroyed it before we left.  We talked about why she did it and what impact it would have.  She’s only 4 though, what’s your excuse _why?

So while _why doesn’t owe us anything, he surely didn’t leave in a way I could characterize as honorable or even mature.  Many people talk about the impact he made on their lives or learning process with his projects and his art, but to me his contribution will always be marred by his destcructive exit.  In my version of reality you’re not allowed to get full credit for the gifts you provide by  taking them back.

So _why,  good luck and Godspeed!  Your final and lasting impression is negativity.  Dude, I totally hope you come back only so I can sit next to Zed at a Ruby conference and huck milkduds and chunky bacon at you.